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Our family tradition is, we are not allowed to have handphone until we finished our SPM. This to make sure that we are focus to our study. Trust me it's really work.
3. Be a friend to your child
How my parents treat their child like a friend? They teach us not to keep any secret and problem from them. Teenagers nowadays likes to share their secret with their friends outside rather than their family, idk why this happen because for me i rather share my secrets with my family members than outsiders because they surely will not backstab me. By sharing problems with my parents, i feel like they soothe me in a way that cannot be describe in words because it can just only be felt. Every time I stressed out with my study, i will take a break and make a video call with my family. It is a therapy for me.
Even my 54 years old father and my 51 years old mother still play with us like friends do. They will hide behind wall or door just to prank us. We really love prank each other so much. This make we are overly attached to one another.
There are many more tips that can be share but i think that's all for this post. Hope you can benefit from this writing.
This time, no more about Dentistry but I would like to share about parenting tips. Even though I'm not a parent yet, but this is based on what my parents did to my siblings and me. Kita terpanggil nak kongsi tips ini sebab sekarang masalah dalam kalangan remaja sekarang semakin menjadi-jadi and i believe that we can change this and this should start from home.
1. Pendidikan Agama
Both my father and mother are not 'Ustaz' and 'Ustazah' but both of them really emphasize about their children's religious education. Seawal umur 4 tahun, abah dan mama dah mula latih kami solat. Alhamdulillah kami adik-beradik umur 6 tahun dah tak tinggal solat. Dan abah sangat menitik beratkan solat berjemaah. Selepas solat berjemaah, kami akan mengaji sambil tunggu isya' (utk waktu maghrib).
SEKOLAH AGAMA. Hantarlah anak-anak ke sekolah agama. Ramai ibu-bapa sekarang yang tak hantar sekolah agama sebab takut anak-anak diaorang penat. Dekat sekolah agama lah akan diajar tentang ilmu fardhu ain. Sirah, Feqah, Tajwid, B.Arab, Akhlak, Jawi. Kalau ibu bapa yang bekerja tu memang takdek masa nak ajar semua tu. so better hantar je anak-anak ke sekolah agama.
2. Handphone
Our family tradition is, we are not allowed to have handphone until we finished our SPM. This to make sure that we are focus to our study. Trust me it's really work.
3. Be a friend to your child
How my parents treat their child like a friend? They teach us not to keep any secret and problem from them. Teenagers nowadays likes to share their secret with their friends outside rather than their family, idk why this happen because for me i rather share my secrets with my family members than outsiders because they surely will not backstab me. By sharing problems with my parents, i feel like they soothe me in a way that cannot be describe in words because it can just only be felt. Every time I stressed out with my study, i will take a break and make a video call with my family. It is a therapy for me.
Even my 54 years old father and my 51 years old mother still play with us like friends do. They will hide behind wall or door just to prank us. We really love prank each other so much. This make we are overly attached to one another.
There are many more tips that can be share but i think that's all for this post. Hope you can benefit from this writing.
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